There’s something profoundly healing about a dog’s love. It doesn’t come easy—at least, it didn’t for Lilly and me.
In February 2013, I adopted Lilly from a kill shelter where she had been confined in isolation for six long months. No affection, no human connection—just silence and survival. When I found her, she was a ghost of a dog, thin and anxious, but there was a flicker of life in her eyes that told me not to give up.
I named her Lilly, after my mother, and bringing her home was the start of something beautiful. Slowly, with patience and trust, that flicker turned into a spark. Lilly began to show me what a dog’s love really looks like—gentle, fierce, loyal.
Yes, she still carries the shadows of her past. Sudden noises can startle her, and she sometimes needs a little extra reassurance. But every small step she takes toward healing is a testament to the bond we’ve built.
A dog’s love isn’t something you’re just given—it’s earned, cherished, and deeply rewarding. Lilly has taught me that. And I wouldn’t trade our journey for anything.
Lilly in Full Bloom
In May of 2013, I was finally able to see the dog that Lilly was meant to be. I took her on a small trip to beautiful Cape Cod where she was finally able to drop the last of her defenses. My loving and faithful companion finally learned what enjoying life is all about. This is certainly a very special “little moment” in my life as I was also there with close friends who mean a lot to me. Please enjoy this short video above celebrating my dog and my friends.
Lilly Playing at Home
Mr. Squirrel is the only toy Lilly will play with. She has had it for 6 years and it has traveled to more cities in the past few years than most people will in a lifetime!
Lilly on Fire Island – 2019
Lilly Docking the Boat – Lake of the Woods – 2019
Photogenic? You Bet!
There isn’t a doubt in my mind that she is the most photogenic dog on this planet. Here’s the proof: look below!
A Sad Day
On February 2, 2021, I had to put Lilly down. Lilly was the love of my life but had many health problems from the beginning. I tried my best to manage them but promised myself that I would never let her suffer. The time to fulfil that promise was today. There is solace knowing that she is not suffering anymore, and only time can heal a broken heart. Having lost so many loved ones in the past, I am far too familiar with this process. Lilly was my best friend, and I will miss her very much.
A New Chapter
I want to welcome an addition to my family of one. Jake is a mix of rat terrier and chihuahua. In the Jewish tradition, we name after the dead. Jake is named after my late brother Jay.
He is a rescue dog from South Carolina who is incredibly loving. He is quite the charmer. We are both fortunate to have found each other.
Jake: The Series
Episode 1: Jake Finds Love
Episode 2: Jake Finds Love Again
Episode 3: Jake Finds Love Again, and Again
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